A phrase from historical newspaper personal ads, explained with real examples from the archive.
A slightly softer way of saying object matrimony: the writer hopes the acquaintance will lead to marriage.
| Type | Historical language |
|---|---|
| Category | Formula |
| Earliest example in the archive | March 26, 1888, Express and Telegraph (Adelaide) |
| Most common | 1850s to the 1920s |
Where object matrimony was blunt, with a view to matrimony suggested that marriage was the hope rather than the condition. It appears in the archive alongside wishes the acquaintance of and similar phrases, and a related phrase, matrimonially inclined, turns up in an 1898 Seattle ad describing the kind of woman the writer hoped to find.
YOUNG ENGLISH GENTLEMAN (30), tired of the misery of single life, wishes to end same, and with that view desires to correspond with a loving, fond, good-tempered,…
RESPECTABLE WIDOW LADY wishes to correspond with GENTLEMAN, age about 48, with view to MATRIMONY. Strictly confidential. Address “Nellie,” P.O., Port Adelaide.
An industrious Scotchman, aged 30 years, wants to correspond with a frugal and industrious lady of 25 or 30 years, with a view to matrimony. Must exchange photographs.…
AM A NEW YORK MAN, young, good-looking, clever; returned this week from Atlin solely for purpose meeting young maiden or widow matrimonially inclined with some capital…
MIDDLE-AGED widow, with some means, is desirous of meeting gentleman, with view to matrimony. Address S 8, Bee.
WANTED—A sober, industrious gentleman age 33, would like to meet lady with ranch or some means with view to matrimony. Address "Matrimony," care Republican.
WIDOWER of 45 wishes acquaintance of lady with view to matrimony. Box 210 Tribune.
FARMER, 34, desires correspond young lady take on dairy farm, view mat., genuine; Box B120, “Telegraph.”
GOOD looking, tall, young man, fond pictures, desires friendship of nice, pretty girl, with a view to mat., send snap if possible; Z129, “Telegraph.”
THREE smart young Ladies wish to meet three smart city gentlemen at Holts, view marriage.
WIDOW, 43, would like to hear from genuine working gent, view friendship mat.; Box B91, “Telegraph.”
RESPECTABLE lonely gent, widower, 40, like meet lady 35 to 40 view above. Apply H4 this office.
GENT., 39, Prot., wishes meet Yng. Lady view Mat. 7870, Herald.
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How this fits into 170 years of personal ad shorthand: From Object Matrimony to LTR: How Personal Ads Learned to Talk in Code.
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